How To Be A Girl's Girl

 How to Be a Girl’s Girl (Because the World Already Has Enough of the Other Kind)

Let’s be real for a second—being a girl’s girl isn’t about pretending to like every woman you meet or forcing friendships that don’t feel right. It’s about choosing to be the kind of woman who roots for other women, full stop. The kind who doesn’t get weird when another woman shines. The kind who says “I got you” and actually means it.

So if you’re trying to step into that energy (or just be better about it), here’s what that looks like in real life:

1. Hype Her Like It’s Your Job

If your friend looks good, tell her. If she’s doing something cool, gas her up. There’s no such thing as too much hype when it’s coming from a genuine place. A random “you’re killing it” text can turn someone’s whole day around.

2. Clap When She Wins

Sometimes her win might come at a time when you’re feeling low. That’s okay. You can still celebrate her and trust that your moment is coming too. Real ones don’t shrink when someone else is shining—they bring the glitter and join the party.

3. Be the Friend Who Actually Shows Up

We all have busy lives, but if she’s going through it, try to be more than just a “you good?” text. Sometimes it’s a call. Sometimes it’s sitting on the couch in silence with snacks. Sometimes it’s just letting her cry without offering solutions.

4. Shut Down the Gossip

If people start coming for another woman—especially a friend—shut that down. You don’t need to be rude. Just shift the convo. Protect her name the same way you’d want yours protected.

5. Don’t Play Dirty with Her Man

Let’s not even play. If she’s your friend, her relationship is off-limits. That includes flirtation, “jokes,” weird energy, or little comments that could be taken the wrong way. Respect her. Period.

6. Support Her Dreams, Big or Small

If she’s selling something, buy it when you can. Share her posts. Recommend her to people. You don’t have to be rich or famous to be a good friend—just intentional.

7. Give Without Keeping Score

Friendship isn’t a game of tally marks. Be generous with your time, love, and energy without always expecting something back. If it’s real, it’ll flow both ways.

8. Tell the Truth, But Make It Soft

You don’t have to lie to be kind, and you don’t have to be harsh to be honest. If she asks for your opinion, be real—but lead with love. Always.

9. Be Kind to the Ones You Don’t Know

That woman in line at the store? Compliment her outfit. The girl who just started at your job? Say something nice. You never know what someone’s going through—and kindness from one woman to another hits different.

10. Do the Inner Work

Let’s be honest—sometimes we get judgmental because we haven’t fully healed something in ourselves. If you catch yourself being bitter, jealous, or petty... pause. Ask yourself why. Being a girl’s girl also means learning to be soft with yourself, too.

Being a girl’s girl isn’t about being perfect. It’s just about being intentional. About choosing community over competition. About showing up with love, not ego.

Because at the end of the day, Women who support women are unstoppable.

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